Let me tell you a secret:
There is no becoming.
There is nothing ‘out there’ for you.
There is nothing out there that you are searching for & chasing that will bring you what you actually desire.
You are deceiving yourself with your chase with something external.
You are deceiving yourself in thinking that the thing you are chasing will bring you something.
But it’s not your fault.
That’s what society has taught us.
We’re all ‘on a journey’.
We are bombarded by parents, coaches, bosses, and experts, who tell us that what we want is ‘over there’ and we must work, and train, and follow their advice, to get there.
But here’s the truth, as direct as possible,
and I hope you it instantly hits you like a freight train like it did for me.
You are HERE.
What you think you want is ‘OUT THERE’.
HERE is ALWAYS HERE.
OUT THERE is ALWAYS OUT THERE.
So if you do not have it HERE, you will NEVER have it.
They are like two dots on a piece of paper, you are HERE in one spot, and what you think you want is OUT THERE on another spot.
Except there are no lines to be drawn.
They are two places, eternally separated.
OUT THERE is ALWAYS OUT THERE.
YOU are ALWAYS HERE.
Do you get it?
This isn’t ‘The Secret’ or ‘Law of Attraction’ where you believe you have received it and it will magically manifest in your life.
This is about understanding what you truly want.
And understanding what you truly want, is not out there.
Because the truth is, you cannot manifest a Lamborghini, or a house.
You cannot manifest anything material.
But that’s not what you truly want anyway!
That’s just what you have been led to believe you want.
That you have been led to believe will give you what you truly want.
It is all just a surrogate for what we truly want.
Society has filled us with the desire for the Surrogates;
The cars, the houses, the championships, the money, the ‘passive income’.
These are the things that are OUT THERE,
that you have always chased after,
hoping they will give you what you truly want.
And never have.
So the chase, and the misery, continues.
But why do you want what you want?
Why do you want to perform at your best?
Why do you want the shiny object?
I’m not saying you should or should not want those things.
I’m genuinely asking why do you want them?
What are you hoping to get from attaining these things?
Do you know? Or do you need me to tell you?
Okay, here it is:
You want to change the way you feel HERE and NOW, so you chase something OUT THERE thinking it will do just that.
That’s what you have been led to believe.
That’s what society tells us.
That’s ‘the journey’ we’re all on.
That’s ‘the path’ all the coaches, parents, internet gurus and ‘experts’ are leading us on.
That if we attain something OUT THERE,
whether it be fame, money, shiny objects, or championship rings,
we will change how we feel about ourselves, HERE and NOW.
Because that is ultimately what we want.
But here’s the problem,
here’s why it doesn’t work,
here’s why after a century of self-help books, courses and experts, we’re still searching:
HERE is ALWAYS HERE.
OUT THERE is ALWAYS OUT THERE.
And YOU are ALWAYS HERE.
If you do not have it HERE. You will NEVER have it.
If you want a PERMANENT effect, you must find the Truth.
The Truth of what you want.
The Truth of who you want to be.
The Truth of how you want to feel.
That’s what you need to figure out.
If you do that,
you can bypass all the chasing,
all the misery along ‘the journey’,
all the hard work & effort,
all the surrogates,
and become WHOLE.
NOW.
You can feel the Peace NOW, before stepping onto the court.
You can feel the Freedom NOW, before creating passive income to do what you really want to do.
You can feel the Satisfaction NOW, before wasting your life doing a job you hate.
Because feelings are HERE, inside you, not out there.
It doesn’t take time,
it doesn’t take hard work,
it doesn’t take years of blood sweat and tears,
it takes understanding.
With understanding,
transformation happens in an instant.
When you understand the feelings you truly want,
they become the primary target,
and the surrogates become secondary.
And what you have truly wanted all along,
arrives,
PERMANENTLY.